Girlfriend has lower sex drive than I do...What do I do??She is emotionally..........

[EndlessDecision]

So I have been living with my girlfriend for about two years. Without her I would be living in my car or at random friends' houses. She has been there for me when my family wouldn't nor my friends. I can see myself with her for years to come but there is just one problem......she gets really angry and stubborn about who is right, and who is wrong in any situation.

This leads to her raising her voice, which then blocks out my words of recognition(to what she was saying/yelling). This happens not only with me but with the two other people that she is close with in life, her older sister and her dad.

I feel like when she is being her normal self and not overexercised by her emotional impulse to argue, that she is a pure diamond in the rough! (to say the least)
So it is very tiring having to deal with her emotions when mine scarcely get addressed.

The other big issue is that our SEX drives are very far apart....I would like it almost anytime possible where she would like it 2-3 times a week. This is because she has had a spree of ****ing in high-school that wasn't a positive experience for her (so she says).

Me on the other hand have only slept with a few people in high-school. She has ****ed 3.5 times more than I have in life so far. I have slept with 3 females she has slept with 11 guys, before we started going out.

I have had the craving to have sex more whether it be oral, touching, or full on sex but she never gets into it when I initiate it anymore. (she used to in the beginning). I have also wanted to explore the various body types sexually, so instead of holding in the thoughts, I ended up expressing how I was thinking/feeling to her.

I told her that I would wanted to explore more sexually and that I was coming to her to give her control of the situation and for permission to do so(as long as she was my number one priority and nothing came before her) but she said no....I explained that I view it like anyone would view a back massage. It needs to be done by someone else, it relieves stress and you don't have emotional attachment to the person that massaged you or that you massaged.

It tears me up because I would be so much more in love with her if she was more understanding of how I feel about the situation. What do I do?

PS I explained to her that, for me, what matters most in LIFE and closer to Death is having positive attachments with life long friends and family. And the only ones I would want to experience sexual things with would be ones that aren't ratchet and truly a good understanding friend.

[basilandthyme]

It's very simple. Break up, move out and shag whoever you want. Also, you won't have to deal with her temper tantrums anymore.

[EndlessDecision]

I work full time and go to school full time. I am far from lazy, I just have no family support. I don't make enough to support myself and actually work for her dads corporation. So moving out would be straight into my car.

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I work full time and go to school full time. I am far from lazy, I just have no family support. I don't make enough to support myself and actually work for her dads corporation. So moving out would be straight into my car.....

[basilandthyme]

Seriously mate, if she's supporting you financially, you have the choice of either accepting her charity graciously or move out into your car. But don't hang about being supported by her and thinking that you have the right to complain.