Originally Posted by
eve.ashley
darling, it's nt suppose to be easy, in the sense of, not scary.
what i mean is, everyone finds it easier to ask out people they only kind of like, than people they really like.
the thing is, we are all in it together. we all have loads more to lose when we really love or like and love someone...
but oh everything is so much more intense and better and, in time, more comfortable and natural with someone we love, as oppose to someone we kind of like or not...
unless you are pathologically needy, (unless you have a personality disorder), saying how you rally feel, when you feel it, is not ruining anything, it's a good thing.
unless you are stalking someone.
how can you ever have a chance at love, unless you say how you feel when you feel it.
again, unless you are a creepy stalker, saying you love someone in the first two weeks, if you really mean it, and back it up with actions is legit.
however, she might not believe you, and thinks you are playing her...
so, you got to show her you were serious and it's not some sort of game you are playing...
people lie so much about their feelings, for various reasons, that when you come clean with someone they might not believe you.