IM SORTA IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW, IM JUST REALLY CONFUSED...I DONNO IF I HAVE MORE FUN WITH MY BOYFRIEND OR MY FRIENDS...NOW MY BOYFRIEND DOESNT WANT ME ANYMORE BECAUSE I SELL HIM OUT ALL THE TIME FOR MY FRIENDS...I STILL LOVE HIM AND EVERYTHING, WE WENT OUT FOR 2 AWESOME YEARS... I HAVE KNOWN MY FRIEND FOR JUST AS LONG OR LONGER BUT I JUST NOW STARTED HANGING OUT WITH HER AGAIN... SHE JUST BROKE UP WITH HER B/F AND IT SEEMS NOW SHE WANTS TO HANG OUT ALITTLE MORE...WHAT IF SHE GETS ANOTHER B/F AND WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH HIM MORE???MY B/F WILL BE GONE AND I WILL HAVE NO ONE TO BE WITH???WHAT SHOULD I DO???PLEASE HELP???
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07-06-05, 12:57 AM #1
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Please Help Me !!!!!
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07-06-05, 01:19 AM #2
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Frasbee-
awaiting your help with the recommendations on how to improve this posting.
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just let your boyfriend know that your friend is going through some hard time right now and just really need a little bit more companionship. He should understand that if he had a friend who's in the same situation, he'd try to do the same thing.
a friend in need a friend in deed.
anyway, you don't have to give one up for the other. unless that's what you want to do."Ogres are like onions."
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07-06-05, 01:59 AM #3
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Jaysus! I am seeing double - no, triple even! - and I haven't even been drinking!
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gawd! you are cracking me up today shh!
"Ogres are like onions."
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sold out my boyfriend is another way of saying that he made plans for me to see him and i picked to go hang out with my friend instead...im getting so many different opinions and it's hard....like i said my friend just now started calling me alot more because she broke up with her boyfriend and now she has no one and she always wants to hang out not thiinking i still have a boyfriend..... i do have alot of fun with her it just seems like me and her make plans before he says anyhting to me but if i tell him that he says we have been going out for 2 years i should'nt have to make plans too see you??? he has been really good to me except of course now because he thinks im the worse person in the world.... i just dont know, some people tell me i made a big mistake for not spending time with him and some peope say stay with your friend???
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09-06-05, 11:02 AM #6
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Actually, I think you're the worst* person in the world.
Originally Posted by sarah718
Now go away.
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09-06-05, 12:11 PM #7
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Why cant your BF spend time with you and your other friend. Go out as a group. Would your friend break up with someone to spend time with you? Probably not. There are things your BF can provide that your friend can not. So understand that all relationships ar two way streets, your friend should be supportive of your relationship with your BF. I think you need to try and include you bf in other activities. Originally Posted by sarah718
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09-06-05, 12:16 PM #8
atada a mis pies.
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if your friends are really your friends, you can go ten years with out seeing each other and they still want to hang out with you. if your boyfriend really loves you, he would accept that you have friends and he will accept them as your friends and allow you to hang out with them.
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09-06-05, 12:19 PM #9
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Hear ye, hear ye! Originally Posted by misombra
"Ogres are like onions."
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10-06-05, 11:58 AM #10
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its not that he dont let me its that i hang out with her so much more than him and i pick her over him all the time and i think it kinda upsets him. I nkow he would always pik me over his friends because he said i was more important then them!!!
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i'm sorry sarah. it seems you already made up your mind as to what you want to do. you're choosing your friend over your boyfriend. it's your choice. what advice are you lookng for?
"Ogres are like onions."
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Well then stop it, spend more time with him, is that a problem?B/g friends may come and go, but ur friends always stay, don't forget that
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Good grief, Sarah. First of all, CALM DOWN! It's not the end of the world, whatever happens. Then look at it this way:
What, exactly, does your b/f think he's losing (or MIGHT lose!) by your spending time with your friends? What, exactly, are you gaining by spending time with them that you aren't getting from him?
I believe once you guys figure some of that out, things'll clear up nicely. I also believe that, until then, the entire relationship is on shaky ground, in any case.
