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    Not allowed to meet anyone

    I have a girlfriend of 3.5 months and it's falling apart because I am not allowed to meet her family , Easter Sunday I had to spend the day on my own cause she went out with her mum and aunty. she has told me off the other day because I posted something on her Facebook page and she removed the page saying that I was aiming it for people to know we were toghether and she doesn't want that , she does seem to post a lot of shit but aimed at getting attention from it ,I'm not sure what to do as I care for her but it just don't make sense to me she is either hidding something or doesn't want up loose the attention from male friends on her FB posts if they know she is in a relationship.
    Am I being taken for a fool her do you think and just used to satisfy her sex needs every other weekend

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    A friend of mine likes to keep her boyfriends a secret from everyone until she knows that the relationship has legs. She doesn't want to introduce someone until she's sure that the relationship won't be a short one. I know other people who's parents and friends have met pretty much anyone they've ever dated. Whether it be for 2 weeks or two years.

    You need to talk with her and find out why she's keeping you a secret. That being said, if you don't like being kept a secret for whatever reason - then break up and find someone who dates with a similar attitude to you.

    Lastly, if *nobody* knows that you and she are a thing - be aware that she could have more than one boyfriend.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Firemansam63 View Post
    I have a girlfriend of 3.5 months and it's falling apart because I am not allowed to meet her family , Easter Sunday I had to spend the day on my own cause she went out with her mum and aunty. she has told me off the other day because I posted something on her Facebook page and she removed the page saying that I was aiming it for people to know we were toghether and she doesn't want that , she does seem to post a lot of shit but aimed at getting attention from it ,I'm not sure what to do as I care for her but it just don't make sense to me she is either hidding something or doesn't want up loose the attention from male friends on her FB posts if they know she is in a relationship.
    Am I being taken for a fool her do you think and just used to satisfy her sex needs every other weekend
    that she is hiding your from friends and family and trashy social or trashy social engines for that matter is weird.

    it can be a number of reasons.

    i can't know her reasons but she is being hurtful to you.

    if i was treated that way i'd break up with that man.

    if a person would not be proud to be with me,and me with them, i would not stay in that relationship.

    you should be with someone who is making you feel good...
    Last edited by eve.ashley; 16-04-15 at 02:54 AM.

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