This situation involves me and 2 girls. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and neither of us has been tested for STD's.
Eventually I broke up with my girlfriend and got frisky with a neighborgirl. A week later, the neighborgirl tells me she it hurts when she pees, and that she thinks we should get checked. She ends up getting checked and she tests positive for Chlamydia. She gets antibiotics for her and myself and we both take them. I let my ex know that she needs to get checked.
So here's when mistakes are made - neighborgirl and I didn't wait a full week before having a sex again, we had sex after just 3 or 4 days. So, in this instance, I'm worried that we gave it back to each other.
Furthermore, shortly after that period, I hooked up with my ex (who likely had it) and *almost* had sex with her. Literally what stopped us is that she wasn't very lubricated down there. When I tried to "stick it in", I noticed it wasn't going to work, so I pulled back out (no full insertion). We could've used lube or condoms but after that initial attempt I thought it was a bad idea. This was another mistake - we didn't have sex but I'm not sure if that contact was enough to re-spread the chlamydia to myself.
A week and a half later, I go into Planned Parenthood for an STD check to see if I still have Chlamydia. The Doctor tells me that it's not worth testing for it - she said it's likely I'd receive a false positive because there's possibly leftover bacteria from the infection that takes a couple months to clear up entirely. I'd have to wait a few months to re-test. So, while I was there, I tested for other things (HIV, Syphilis, Herpes) and came up clean for those. She gave me a prescription for anti-biotics to take again, which I haven't taken yet. She also gave me a partner pack, which I gave to my ex.
Well, I've gotten back together with my ex since that point, but I've been refraining from sex. I've also kept her in the dark regarding "the other girl" that I saw when we were broken up, so she's not fully aware of the situation. I let her give me oral once the other night, but that might've been a bad idea if I do indeed still have chlamydia. I've contacted the neighbor girl who initially alerted me about the chlamydia and she told me she had a cotton swab test which tested negative, and that she has no symptoms.
SO, to quickly summarize
- I'm worried I might have Chlamydia because I had sex too soon after taking the antibiotics. It's also possible I could've gotten it from my ex when I tried to insert penis into her (and failed) before deciding to not have sex.
BUT
- It seems just as likely I don't have Chlamydia. If the girl who initially alerted me about it says her 2nd test was clean and she has no symptoms, then that probably means I didn't get reinfected. The sexual contact with my ex (who had it at the time) was minimal (we didn't actually have sex, I just tried to put my penis in her vagina and it was too tight/dry so I pulled out, no real insertion).
So either I don't have chlamydia and I'm over-thinking things... or I have it and I just gave it back to my ex (who isn't really my ex anymore, but I call her that for the sake of keeping the story simple).
Should I be worried or am I over-thinking it? What would be the proper course of action? Just forget about it until summer and then re-test? Or just take the extra anti-biotics I have and forget about it? This chlamydia thing has been running circles in my head for months now. I'm tempted to just take the anti-biotics I have and then cut all ties with my ex and neighborgirl, because that's the only way I could guarantee I'm clean.