and I don't think people should be judged for their weight,
He's not judging you, he just has a preference. That's not the same as judging you.
Since you don't light his fire this will never work out. Find someone else who will like you for who you are.
Also another thing: depending on how heavy you are, you probably lost 95% of your dating pool by being overweight. Consider how this will affect your dating life. Most guys do not like girls that are too heavy. Being overweight is a choice.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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