I don't appreciate the condescending tone. Obviously, you're older. You may have misperceived me. I am an excellent student (principal's honor roll). I'm taking college courses my senior year of high school instead of staying in highschool. I'm a junior at the Academy for Visual & Performing Arts. I study Multimedia (film, graphic design) and next year I'm interning at a theatre (I plan on a career in Public Relations). I don't drink, or smoke, and I have never done any drugs. I'm also active in Drama and I love reading. I don't mean to sound so defensive but I can't help thinking you must have a very strange image of me. I have had two boyfriends and I don't see them every single day or cheat on them. They are just my best friends basically, with whom I can be open with and cuddle with and such. I have one girlfriend and I love her dearly but the rest of my friends are boys. Not BoyFRIENDS but just friends. I always appreciated guys' minds more, lol. I think they are simpler, more honest, and straighforward. So, having a bf is almost like having a best friend.
I've learned to manage my time wisely. I go home, do my HW, and then go out. I know how to enjoy myself without slacking. Maybe you've never had a bf you love, but its very comforting.
Take a second and try not to look at the situation from an adult point of view. I don't know if you've ever been 16, you don't exactly seem it. And I don't strut around looking for any guy. The desperation that I experienced on the second day of the break-up was almost a defense mechanism. I have never went out looking for guys, as I said. This was probably the first time. Besides, I'm not going to force an attraction. If I don't like Vlad, then I plan on floating on.
My mother "allowed this" because she's obviously wiser than you are. Having a bf is not going to scar me for life, or hold me back from opportunity. I have never let it, and I don't plan on it.
Sorry about whatever is bothering you in you're life. Maybe you need to find other ways of venting other than critisizing me or my mother...