Hello all!
I have recently signed up for this forum and I am hoping that I came to the right place to help solve my issue!
About 7-8 months ago, me and my girlfriend (now ex) had broken up after a 2 year relationship. The reason (according to my now ex) was because she did not feel the same about me, nor did she see me in her future. I accepted her feelings and we mutually split and went on with our lives. About 3-4 months after, I met a new girl whom I am currently in a relationship with (as did my ex, funny right?) I would like to think that we have a great and fun relationship, whether it be cooking dinner together, drinking wine, snuggling, etc., we are always having some sort of fun. One of the biggest differences between my ex and my new girl is that my ex was very outgoing and wild, whereas my new girl is very shy and reserved.
With that being said, I must admit that my ex was extremely good in bed. She had the skills to satisfy me whenever we did it, and I apparently had the skills to satisfy her as well, unless she was faking, of course. Our sex life was full of fun, toys and just pure excitement for the longest time. (towards the end it slowed down majorly) Now, on the other hand, my new girl is a bit older than me and even though that is the case, she seems very inexperienced in the bedroom. Now for some reason I have a feeling that I may not be "big" enough for her (if you know what I mean) and that maybe she is used to something "bigger". (I would consider my size as "average") It is hard to tell because most of the time, she has an orgasm and everything is good, but sometimes she seems very bored and not satisfied at all. She doesn't like to ride on top, but rather most of the time, she likes it when I do all the work. (which I think has to do with her being so shy) I try my best each time to satisfy her but I can't really get a good read on her as she always seems so "flat" with her emotions before and after.
Now I have been thinking of buying a toy or two to try and spice it up for her, but I am not sure how she will react to such a thing as she is, again, very prudish. One thing that she did that really surprised me was she started taking birth control, shortly after we started having sex. (she claimed it was very other health reasons, but who knows) I also have to admit that she has been freaky at times during sex, but most of the time it is just basic sexual activities until we both reach our points and that's it. My goal is to really knock her socks off her feet and make sure really enjoy our sexual intercourse, though I am confused as to how to make that happen since I do not want to make her nervous or scare her with any more "freaky" activities.
Ladies, what do ya'll suggest? Thank you in advance!