I've been in a relationship for about a month. We seem to be very sexually compatible. When we started getting intimate, conversations came up about fetishes and things like that. She asked me if I like anal - I told her I've done it and it was all right. She has asked me questions like have I ever been rimmed or given a girl a rimjob - I told her I have and that I liked it. She said a guy asked her to once and that she was completely turned off by it. Just gives me the impression she doesn't like anal. In fact, she said it's an "exit only" hole for her.
I believed her until I noticed she has anal beads in her bedroom. Seriously? WTF? Does that mean she actually likes anal? Why would she be dishonest about that? Edit: maybe they are ben wa balls? I don't know anything about sex toys.