I don't know if I'm being paranoid or how I'm feeling is justified but a woman from my boyfriends work seems to be crossing the line too much for my liking.
She's about 42 and has children and a 'husband' but she seems to be a bit of a loose woman to me. She's been texting my boyfriend who is my age (31) and just general chat about getting drunk, At one point she text him two nights in a row around 11pm and I asked him who was texting and he told me it's the woman from work and I said "does she fancy you or something?" He replied "no! she's married, she's just a bit of a drinker like me so we always have a laugh about it" anyway I got annoyed and decided to check the text messages out, don't get me wrong, I trust my boyfriend, it's her I don't trust....so what I read was that she's been The next evening she's asking him what he's drinking and they both say they're on beer and my boyfriend says he's on his 1st but has more in the fridge and she has the cheek to say "party at yours? Haha" she doesn't seem to have any respect for my existence at all. She then goes on to say she's on her third glass and my boyfriend goes "me too!" And she says "oh we are so alike" - what does she mean by this?!
The next evening she's asking him what drink he's on and then she goes "you will have to come to mine one night and we can see who can drink the most" he replied with "count me in!" Then she said so when shall we
arrange it? To which my boyfriend didn't reply and then she texts him another evening going on about how much fun it was at the works do and then she has the cheek to ask him round on Saturday evening to hers for a few drinks!! My boyfriend ignored it and we spent the evening together but now I'm getting very very worried about what she's after, I'm worried he will arrange a night at hers to get drunk and I don't trust her at all what if she makes a move on him? Do I have a right to ask to be invited? I have noticed online she hasn't liked any of our couple photos but seems to like ones of just him. She's not attractive, she's quite common and I'm very attractive and young looking. Obviously I'm not to know what's been said in these texts, so what should I do?