Need advice and help on a situation in my relationship
by Published on 15-06-15 06:32 PM
I been with this girl for a few months and she has a 2 year old son and he is so adorable he really likes me he want to be around me all the time even sometime more then hes mom :O and he would give me the sweetest kisses and he was always happy around, if he was crying i wound pick him up and hold and wipe away hes tears and he would stop crying and start being happy witch made me happy and so we saw each other (me and her) for almost every day and for the whole day not just a few hours she had all the signs that she loved she would always wanna be close by me and in my arms and she loved and enjoy my kisses. she would share her food with me all the time, we texted everyday and called each other we had sex and we both wanted it she wanted it for her birthday aswell and so on the day we were celebrating her birthday just me and her, i bought her a promise ring and i wanted us to be official together she loved it and we both made it official that we were together in a serious relationship so she wanted me to meet her family (she had talked about me meeting her family and this was before i showed her the ring and we talked about it a few times and she told me she want has our own place to live to together) and so we did and they all really loved me and her mom told me that i was a man that she wanted for her daughter and she doesn't mine coming over anytime i wanted at all, so i have been over at her house a few times and everything was going great. Here is were the problem started i told her that over text that "it seemed that she was more interested in facebook more then me" because the reason why i said that is that there have been alot of days were she wouldn't text for hours almost the whole day and it felt like she was just ignoring me so i started to think something was going wrong she would never text give me late replys like this and this started to happen a few weeks ago so i started to check facebook often and i started to notice that when she didn't reply to my texts she was on facebook liking, commenting and i don't know if she was messaging other guys on there and so that's when i asked her the question "it seemed that she was more interested in facebook more then me" and she told me that well out of the blue that "She wasn't interested in me and she did't feel the connection and that she didn't want be in a relationship at all with anyone" but looking back there was never i sign that she didn't like me or that she didn't so we talked for a few days and so i asked her if she loved me and she told me this "I love you, i love you so much, i'm in love with you and that's the problem. I'm scared of being next to you and you got me going crazy and i don't wanna fall to deep" and soo i asked her if this was really true she said "Yes i do" but the whole time she know i love her so much but i wasn't know it was real so i went on the dating we both meet on and lone and behold she was on it when we both deactivated it and i caught her and i told her and she was surprised so told me she deactivated it but i know that she was still on she just her profile hidden and the way i can tell is that the DP was changed on the email i got when she messaged me on there and it didn't match the DP on the site so i believe she is still on there
so i need help guys i don't know what to do its very mixed at the moment and i don't know how to make her see that i want us to be in a serious relationship and to be together, please guys i need your help it feels like i am being used and taken my love and kindness for granted