It's like a third person interference and he was my best friend. It all messed up the situation between me and my guy because i was unaware of my friends feeling for me. My guy has just given up on everything and has taken a back seat and is adamant about not continuing further. He loves me and has all of those feelings and he admits that too but says he can bear the pain and be away but won't come back to me now. I have done so much to convince him that my friend would not be bothering anymore. I'm not in touch with my friend but he sometimes pokes but i guess that will eventually fade away too. Right now my concern is to get my guy back with all the trust that nothing will ruin our relationship further. I don't know what he must be expecting me to do to convince him now!