I'm in a bad situation with my crazy girlfriend

[ThatGuy39]

Me and my girlfriend been having a lot of issues. A few days ago we got into it. She took my phone without permission. I asked for it back calmly and she wouldn't give it to me. I didn't know what she was going to do with my phone so I tried to grab it out of her hand. I did this because she just looked through my phone like 10 min ago. Check my text and all my social media. Nothing bad on it like always. So during me trying to get my phone back by trying to force it out of her hand. During this she let go. When she let go my fist hit her directly in the perfect spot of her eye. I knew I messed up when this happened. It was a total accident. Now she has the most perfect black eye I've ever seen. Everyone she know believes I beat her (they don't know me that well). There right who wouldn't believe that it sounds like a terrible excuse. The only people that knew what happened was me and her. Things have gotten bad in the relationship, I want out. Every time before I tried to leave she threatened me. Going to kill herself (she tried), going to get me jumped, going to kill me, going to **** all my friends ect. I messed up by not leaving earlier and now I'm really stuck. She threatening me with her black eye saying she going to put me in prison. This will mess me up big time. I have so many things going for me. Got into a University that i will be attending in the Fall, got a nice job and if she does this it'll ruin everything. All she has to do is lie to the police (she's good at lying it wouldn't be hard for her). What can I do? She has total control of me. I'm guessing she has pictures on every camera she can get her hands on to blackmail me. I'm going to leave her the first chance I can get. I just don't want to get myself into legal trouble. I've been trying to get her to admit that it was an accident by recording her, getting her to text me it, but I don't have any good evidence yet. And that probably wont even get me out of trouble. So do any of you have any advice on what I should do? Thanks for reading this I know its long.

[Fuzzyfeeling]

Watch the first 3 seasons of prison break asap.


On another note ,take it to court ,its much better and as long as you know you did nothing wrong then it's alright ,besides if she's mentally ill they can clearly see her reports no matter where she attended therapy so ,don't worry about it and leave her.

[basilandthyme]

So sorry you're in this situation. I suggest you get legal advice - not just for dealing with the current situation, but for dealing with getting away.

[Wakeup]

She threatened to **** all your friends. Can't you get them to give statements about what a nut case she is if she should ever file charges? I'm sure they've probably witnessed her bat-shit crazy antics during your tumultuous union.

I have a feeling that if she was going to do anything, that would get your reputation ruined or you have to face a judge she would have reported you to the police by now.

Keep a low profile and don't break up with her until after her black eye is gone.

That, or watch those Prison Break Episodes... lol

[TheEvilJester]

Dunno if this is weird advice or not, but since Wakeup seems to agree with me I guess at least I am no alone. However, yeah, I was also going to suggest waiting until her black eye was gone, and then breaking up with her. Still, I'm no lawyer, so I don't know the legality behind it all, so take this with a grain of salt....

However, I don't think you can necessarily land in any real legal trouble without her being able to prove what happened. Otherwise, how is anybody fairly even able to know that you gave her the black eye, accident or not? How would they know she didn't get it elsewhere and blamed it on you?

Frankly, I would suggest you get a restraining order against her. I know that may sound crazy and a bit extreme, but she's threatened you, and this will get that on record. Again, they probably couldn't do anything to her without proof, but it at least gets it on record. Plus, if you have the restraining order and she is stupid enough to actually do something, then she'd be in deep doo doo.

Bottom line, no matter what happens, try as best you can not to let her get you emotional. You know the truth, so as far as you should be concerned, you have nothing to worry about. God forbid, if it actually went to court and she got you all riled up and mad, it wouldn't necessarily look good for you. So, as much as you can, you want to retain a level head and insist upon what you know is the truth.

Bottom line, though, get out of that relationship and DO NOT look back. She sounds like a psycho. Good luck to you.

[pcmaster]

Try to get her in mental hospital. She have to calm down and heal. Then dump her. Just suggest her to see the doctor or take her to psychiatrist so she can at least get on medication. Psychotherapist is good idea in terms of talking about problems.

How long you were in relationship or how long you knew her when you discovered shes crazy?

Btw your post is not long, peple been making 7 times longer posts on here.

[TheEvilJester]

Yeah, apparently he hasn't been around long enough to read any of my posts..... and most of my posts are responses to people. LOL! I don't start my own threads often. That was not long at all. It gave us just enough information without being overly long.

[Wakeup]

Well, whether long or short ~ he's not been back so maybe she has him chained up in the basement?

[TheEvilJester]

You know.... depending upon the point of view, that could actually be a good thing. :-P Some people are into that kind of stuff.

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