I am in a long distance relationship with a guy. We have been together for 4 years ( on and off). I caught him talking to another girl on ask.fm and texted him without mentioning ask.fm asking if we were ok.... He said yes but he's busy. He also said he loves me. I assume he's keeping me as an option. How can I ask him if he thinks about a future with me (he mentioned marriage in the past) I need to know to move on or not.