Betrayed by a FAKE FRIEND

[Tiffanimonroe85]

I just found out I'm pregnant , my boyfriend just recently stopped talking to me because I told a friend about some of the things him and his friends indulge in , basically my friend is interested in his brother and I gave her a heads up on what to expect , I thought we were having a casual "girls talk" but she basically ratted me out and now my boyfriend hates me and doesn't want his baby or me anymore I'm really depressed and sad what to do ?

[smackie9]

Duplicate thread!!!!!!!

[TheEvilJester]

No offense intended, and you don't have to answer this if you'd rather not, but how old are you and your boyfriend? This sounds like teenage problems to me.

Anyway, we don't know the specifics of what you shared with your friend that was meant to be just between you and her, so we can't necessarily comment as to whether your boyfriend was right to be upset. I mean, if it was something he really didn't want being shared with the world, then I'd say in most cases you should have never told anybody as it wasn't your secret to tell. If it was actually bad and/or big enough that you felt it warranted telling your friend in case it changed her mind about your boyfriend's brother, then maybe that is different.

Though, either way, whether you violated your boyfriend's trust, or whether you did the difficult but right thing, it doesn't change that your friend was still wrong to then turn around and violate your trust by blabbing. She doesn't sound like a very good friend if you ask me.

Also, even if what you did WAS wrong (I'm not saying it is or it isn't since I don't know enough of the details to make that call) that is still absolutely no excuse for your boyfriend to want nothing to do with his child. He had an equal part in causing you to get pregnant. The child is his, so unless you two happened to mutually decide to give the child up for adoption, or what-have-you, then he has a responsibility to the child just as much as you do. If he no longer wants to be with you, fine, but he has to help you care for your child since he is the father.

[smackie9]

Answers at other thread.