So first off, I've never been in a serious relationship. My love life has almost always been dark and depressing so I just don't usually date anymore. This time seemed so different though. I met this girl a few months ago and we've been txting back and forth since then. A few weeks ago we actually started dating and things seemed to be going really extremely well. For the first time in my life it seemed like I had finally met someone I really clicked with, someone who really did truly love me back.

At first, before we started going out there was an odd quiet period as well and I didn't hear from her for 6 days and then she called. That night we went out and, without giving too many details it was just a really strange night. I couldn't tell what she wanted, she would try to seduce me and then randomly pull away. We talked about it over the phone a day or so later and to get her to open up I told her of my own history of depression and learned she too has anxiety issues and had been abused in the past. Since then though, we were talking almost every night, txting regularly through out the day and she said she had fallen in love with me. After so many deep and amazingly wonderful conversations her feelings really did seem genuine. When we did go out, the way she'd look at me, hold me, and kiss me made it me believe her feelings really were genuine and I was falling for her as well.

I had never had anything like this before and it was amazing! We really did seem to click really well together and it seemed like I had finally met someone I could be with. Our feelings really did seem mutual. The reason I pursued this relationship was because of her optimism and enthusiasm. She said she loved me, said she wanted to be with me.

All the sudden though, about a week ago she just stopped talking to me. I tried to txt her and if I got a response it wouldn't be for hours later and the only time I tried to call she didn't answer. Conversations were suddenly so short and after two days of this I just stopped txting her. Now it's been 5 days, no word from her. Last time I heard from here, it was on a day we were supposed to go out and I didn't hear from her until hours later. All she said was that she was "chillin" at some guy's house (Just a friend? God I really hope so!!)

Because this sort of thing happens so rarely for me it really feels wrong to just give up on her. I rarely click with anyone like this and even when I do start to like someone, the girl almost never has feelings back for me. I've been pretty deeply depressed since this started, so much so that I had to start taking my depression meds again which took a few days to finally take effect. What should I do? How much longer should I wait too text or call her?