is this the end

[nehati]

I was in a relationship with this man for 8 years now. Because of non-commitment and he hurt me by hiding a big thing which happened in his life few months back. I was not really able to accept that, i felt like i lost the trust, what if he hides other things from me again. I was not able to accept it, although we were together in these past few months, I started feeling very negative and started having arguments. I even stopped all contact for few days. I started feeling that I couldnt move forward with this negativity in my heart, neither I was sure how I will live apart from him. I could feel that things were going worse. I used to send him lot of texts blaming him. I was so hurt with some recent happening in his life that I wrote to him saying that I dont feel happy, and that I was always supportive of him but what did he do. I said I want to end the relationship. and I was the victim in this. Then later when I talked to him, I explained that how we couldnt go forward and should end it. In fact, I haven been bringing this from few months now. I also said things in a bad way. Finally, he told me that I had hurt him by saying that I did favours to him and that whatever he thought about me, he couldnt see the same way again. He didnt want to victimize me if thats what I feel. He said that finally I had succeeded in breaking the relationship and that I wanted him to end, so that the blame goes to him, not me. Its not what I wanted. I felt like if i am not happy, he will also not be with me, its better to live our lives separately, but not end on a bitter note. He told now he doesnt even feel like talking to me. he has now blocked my nos., so I really cannot call him. He had even said that he will change his no. so that I can never call him. I didnt mean to hurt him like this, just was telling him how hurt I feel everyday. I have sent him email explaining my side as he wont let me talk to him. I told him that I just want to talk to him once before we call it off in the email and text. I am not even sure that he reads my email or text. I stopped calling/texting after that.
I doubt that he will reply. I just dont want to end like this. What do I do? He definitely doesnt want me to contact him. I desperately tried calling from different nos. but he just wouldnt talk to me. Should I accept that its over and move on?

[woody]

Yes. Accept and move on.
You must not forget that trust was broken. Obviously (though you're not telling us what happened when that trust broke) but it must have been severe enough to warrant a strong reaction out of you.
Things happen for a reason; and though 8 years is a long time to invest in a relationship, if one cannot trust the one their with, well then, that's a rough road to haul.
Life is too short as is even when/if we're able to live until our hair is grey/white and we walk with a cane. Don't waste it with someone you cannot trust.

[Wakeup]

What was it that he hid from you? Maybe if we know what that was, we will be able to give you some advise that will help you to move on and accept that him not being in your life is the best thing that happened to you?

[nehati]

What was it that he hid from you? Maybe if we know what that was, we will be able to give you some advise that will help you to move on and accept that him not being in your life is the best thing that happened to you?

He having a kid with wife. Although he says nothing changed for us, it broke my heart. I have cried over this for months, and still cant make peace with it

[Wakeup]

He having a kid with wife. Although he says nothing changed for us, it broke my heart. I have cried over this for months, and still cant make peace with it

LOL

[nehati]

LOL

what happened?