I really like him but I'm not sure I can keep up with this. Last week was great, we were getting closer, he was trying to get to know me better by asking this personal stuff he said it himself but this week so far not so much. We took a coffee together, it's going great until he said that his wife is at work. I was put off by that because he doesn't have a "wife" and last week he went around calling me his wife. Yesterday he seemed excited to see me but when we do meet he is quiet and doesn't pay much attention to me, he said that he barley slept but this isn't the first time it happens last time he was upset with me. When we said goodbye he gave me a fist bump and called me bro. He didn't even say see you later lik he usually does, we had made some blurry plans for this weekend but he seemed to have forgotten. Just last week he was eager to make plans with me and now I get the opposite feeling to that. I'm thinking that he just sees me as a friend but friends don't kiss each other and they don't sleep with each other although I refuse to sleep with him and he wants to know why I won't do it. This is probably messy but I'm not sure how to put it, I get mixed signals and can't figure out if I've done something or what's up with him? I have been seeing him for three months.