Okay, my ex dumped me a month ago.
We were together a year and a half - woke up to each other EVERY DAY and lived together.
Things were weird a month or two before he broke up with me, but he ended things based on arguments he turned around on me to make look like my fault.
I've been so lonely waking up by myself, spending weekends without him and not messaging him during the course of the day still feels strange. It's like we were married!
I feel like the whole time I was with him was a lie and meant nothing to him if he could easily drop everything and leave me. He kept saying he needed more time with his friends and felt I was to "rigid" which wasn't how things were at all. I really felt like something happened that he's hiding that changed him.
How could he just throw everything away?? I took off days of work for his family, spent holidays with his family and we built a life together. It wasn't like things were bad and we didn't date on and off at any point in our relationship...
Am I the only one hurting?? Is any man that cold and emotionless that they have a better time without the person they planned on marrying and having children with and did EVERYTHING with all the time??
I'm having trouble understanding how he could forfeit an entire year and a half of an amazing relationship for a couple weeks of petty arguing about Facebook and his friends.
Am I missing something?