Some guys want to have sexual variety, some just want a lot of sex from one girl he loves, and others don't place that much importance on sex at all. There are many different types of guys so this isn't gender specific at all. If an exclusive relationship is what you want then he isn't right for you.
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions