My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. In the beginning we had each others passcodes to our phones. He was showing me some funny pictures, and when he walked out into the other room I decided I wanted those pics as well. Not thinking it was a big deal, I went into the photo album to send them to my phone and at the end were 2 selfies of girls from Facebook. I confronted him the next day, and I flat out told him I was NOT okay with it. That it made me feel not good enough for him. He apologized, and he even told me he was worried I'd see them. He said he'd stop. However, I continued to see pictures of random girls selfies on his phone.
Last month, I glanced over while he was on his phone and I saw a selfie of a girl. I said to him "are you still saving pics of random girls on your phone?" He paused for a moment and said no. He flat out lied to me. He did the one thing he hates the most about someone, which is lying. I just ignored it, and went on with my day. Pissed off and upset, though. Yesterday morning, we were in bed, and I closed my eyes for a moment. When I opened them, I saw a picture of one of our mutual friends on his phone. (he was going through his pictures) I quickly confronted him and asked "You saved a picture of skylar on your phone?!" He said "yeah....but it's a meme she made of herself" It was not a meme. It was a selfie she posted on her Facebook a few days ago. Does he just not care about my feelings? He knows I'm NOT okay with this. I don't have pics of other men on my phone, because I know it would bother him just as much. I understand it perfectly normal to find others attractive. I find other men attractive but that doesn't mean I have a feeling that I NEED to save their photos. I love him. He says he loves me. But this is starting to really bother me. I feel like I'm just not attractive enough for him. It hurts, a lot.