Male friend visiting

[feelingsad2]

Have been going out with a woman (41) for about six months

She has invited her male friend over from Australia to stay with her for 2 weeks then they are going on holiday to Spain for a week


She has a 1 bedroom flat but she says he is sleeping in the front room


She also says it is a platonic friendship which I kind of believe


Anyway he arrived yesterday and I'm having a lot of trouble coping - I feel like I'm being disrespected and am a bit jealous as she doesn't actually go out (dates) with me much but is going out with him virtually every day


Any advice on how to cope (got a bit drunk last night :-( )

[justwondering0]

tell her how you feel..or date someone else. If she does not really go on dates with you but now she is going to be preoccupied with this man not just at home but for also a q 1week in Spain..well...next.

[feelingsad2]

Thanks for the reply - would you be worried if it was your girl?

[justwondering0]

yep...because you stated she hardly goes on dates with you in the first place.

[Wakeup]

She's going on holiday with him, without you?


Yea.... you should just break up with her now and find someone who is serious about being exclusive and committed.

Do you know how she met this "platonic" friend? Did she know him before he went to Australia or was he in Australia when she became his friend?