I dont know what to tell her

[Ameriwannica]

This girl I like that says she loves me is marrying a guy because she said her mothers making her...she doesnt love this guy she tells me that she loves me all the time! she moved with him to china for a year and he told me he was going to pop the question when they got back...the only reason shes doing this is because of some piece of paper she signed for her mother! I need to convince her that we are worth more than the piece of paper but I dont know how! Ive told her to find and burn the paper and she said she would try...this guys a dbag too Id hate for her to make such a huge mistake when she could be with me....does anyone have any advice?

thanks

[basilandthyme]

I'd be inclined to remove yourself from her life. If she finds that she can't possibly cope without you around, she may realise that she's doing the wrong thing.

[dontaskme]

Ive told her to find and burn the paper and she said she would try...

Jeez! Before you proceed burning any paper, do you even know what kind of document it is? You can't just go burn a document especially when it is a legal and binding one! Goodness, don't you guys think?

[Fuzzyfeeling]

I think you're asking for advice on an alleged crime , amiright ?

[Wakeup]

I'd think twice about being with someone that knew she was being arranged to someone else but got with you only to break your hear anyway.

[Ameriwannica]

it was an agreement between her and her mother only...not like it was legal...

[Wakeup]

That's a great excuse to be done with you. Seriously... if she really was going to adhere to this so called "agreement" with her mother, then why would she be such a C and get with you just to break your heart?

Do what you have to do to get yourself over her and get out there again and find someone who is more apt to end up your lifemate.

[AnnaDavi]

Try to meet her mother! Maybe she will change her mind and will stop making her marrying another person!