Get my ex back

[patriotmomma7]

I'm 22 years old and was dating a guy who is 30. He is seriously the love of my life. I have never ever felt the same about anyone the way I feel about him. I lost him because I kinda went a little crazy and called him a bunch one night trying to get him to answer the phone when he was asleep. He got pissed and blocked me from facebook. This was about 3 weeks ago. This past Monday he messaged me to see how I was doing and I ended up going to visit him. Yesterday night he came over to visit me. Although it was a bit different because we aren't dating he was still he same normal silly self. We had sex last night too. I just want to know what I can do to win his heart back. Before he told me I was his soul mate and that he is so thankful that he met me... that he was so excited to see where this would lead us and hopefully we would have the most deep and meaningful relationship that either of us have ever experienced. I posted on a facebook forum to get advice, but those people just said he seems like he is out to get sex. I 100% can't believe that because if that was true he would come over just for that. Last night we hung out and cuddled before we did anything and it was my wanting to, not his (not that he didn't want to, he just didn't start it). Monday we kissed and hugged but that's it. Anyways, to the point... what do I do to get him back? I don't want to seem to needy or overbearing because that's how I lost him before.

[Wakeup]

Just because he cuddles you before he does you it doesn't mean that he isn't using you for sex.

What do you do? You stop shagging him when he comes over and you tell him how you feel about him and does he feel the same way, that you'd like the two of you to be exclusively dating again and what does he think about that.

If his answer is anything other then "Yes" I want to be your boyfriend then stop being his cum bucket and go zero contact so that you can rehab from your addiction to him.

Learn to stop being a crazy, stalking twit that bombs his phone with insecure texts. If you do that in your next relationship you'll likely end up in the same predicament you're in now.

[solarion]

Learn to stop being a crazy, stalking twit that bombs his phone with insecure texts. If you do that in your next relationship you'll likely end up in the same predicament you're in now.

That was pretty brutal, but not wrong. Guys will generally view horribly insecure women as good enough for sex, but not good enough to be GF material. Learn to love and respect yourself first and then project that outward. Spamming a guy with texts/calls screams drama queen...don't be that gal.

[CaseySp]

First rule of getting back is no contact. Let him miss your presence. And like the rest said, spamming him with texts and calls will only make him feel irritated more, instead of him missing you. See here for more information: [url=http://www.getandkeephim.net/how-to-get-him-back/]How to Get Him Back in 7 Steps - Get and Keep Him[/url]

[basilandthyme]

I have questions:

What was behind you going crazy with calling his phone that night? You are putting all the blame on yourself - but surely something triggered you. I know it's hard to recall the 'not so great' stuff now that you are feeling so sad, but tell us about the things which frustrated you.

How long were you together?

[Chock]

First rule of getting back is no contact. Let him miss your presence. And like the rest said, spamming him with texts and calls will only make him feel irritated more, instead of him missing you. See here for more information: [url=http://www.getandkeephim.net/how-to-get-him-back/]How to Get Him Back in 7 Steps - Get and Keep Him[/url]

This works, but be careful that it's not too long, or he'll start to forget. I'm going to wing it, but for me (similar situation) I waited a month, and then I showed that I had changed, and slowly started to connect with the ex again, and it worked just fine.

If he's totally not into you, you'll not succeed, especially if your dating was a really short time (perhaps less that a few months or so).

[Wakeup]

^^^ Are you the "wing man" of the spam poster in post [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=4]#4[/URL] ?

[basilandthyme]

Brianaleshea, if you want help - make your own post. Don't use other people's threads