Hi all, an update on an old problem.
A few years back I came on here with a problem I had with a friend I had, we basically were friends but spent way to much time together and developed strong feelings for each other, she had a boyfriend who I knew and was away a lot. This went on for some time, nothing happened physically but it certainly did emotionally. I took the advice here and cut ties from her completely. We had the odd contact every so often as we live in the same town but hardly anything, I got over it quite well, still thought about her a little bit but got on and had a good couple of years with quite a few holidays etc so was all good.
About 6 weeks ago with had a brief conversation on social media, which went onto texts. As much me contacting her as her contacting me. Turns out she had split up with hey boyfriend about 3-4 weeks previous for most of the reasons I always thought they would. We had a catch up which was a lot easier than I thought and we caught up and had a few conversations about her and how she was with the split etc. Since then we have met up a few times and it all seemed to slip back into how we were a few years ago, just without the obvious complications. There has been zero mention from either of us on our situation a few years go which I think is a good thing.
I have been very wary of this all and it's by no means her now just coming back in contact because she had split up. I'm just now getting thoughts and feeling of what I used to have and very unversed by it all. I like spending time with her and we still get on so well even after all this time but it's starting to concern me and I don't want to go back down the road I went down before.
I think I know what people will tell me to-do but I just wanted to write it all down and I find it helps me process and think about things.