I hate it when a guy stops replying all the sudden...

[Ash888]

I was seeing this guy for few weeks, we hooked up, we got along, had laugh, I wasn't needy, he was sweet, everything seemed going good.
He was from work(I work in remote area, he is from another state), and he just got redundant from work, I messaged him and that's it no reply.
I can see him not even opening the message (sent it through FB), I am just sad that we had fun time together but then he doesn't even open my message.
He wasn't just into me - that's easy to say but it's hard to understand and still hurts my feeling.
It makes me don't want to text any guy ever again.
I just wanted to share this feeling and have some comment about it.

[smarta$$]

When you say he was made redundant, do you mean he was fired?

Major life events have a way of throwing people into depression. He probably just isn't up for being entertaining right now. Call it bad timing.

[Ash888]

When you say he was made redundant, do you mean he was fired?

Major life events have a way of throwing people into depression. He probably just isn't up for being entertaining right now. Call it bad timing.

Hi smarta$$,
Yes he lost his job but he wasn't in a bad position financially. But well that could be it hey you never know...

[basilandthyme]

It's entirely possible that he viewed what he had with you as an away from home fling. A bit rude that he can't even wish you luck now that he's gone.

Have you considered that he may have a partner back home?

[Wakeup]

I don't know, but it sounds like you didn't know him that well and you had sex with him when he has zero emotional connection to you.

It also seems You are expecting that sex will get you a relationship when a lot of times, it won't even get you treated well. If you're going to hook up without commitment with men you don't really know well, then stop being offended when it doesn't turn into anything other then a fling. If you can't stop being offended then change up your strategy way of doing things with guys you are attracted to.

How long has it been since you emailed him and he hasn't responded?

[allytiger]

This is happening to me to but we didn't have sex.

[fearoflove]

People hang out and never heard from again. It wasn't a serious thing so can't blame him. It happens.

[Date2Relate]

While ghosting can hurt, people who do that sort of thing aren't worth your precious time.

You will meet other people. They will be much better for you than someone who can't muster up the courage to tell you he's decided to give it all a pass. In the online world, people like this are a dime a dozen and you're worth far more than a dime!

I was seeing this guy for few weeks, we hooked up, we got along, had laugh, I wasn't needy, he was sweet, everything seemed going good.
He was from work(I work in remote area, he is from another state), and he just got redundant from work, I messaged him and that's it no reply.
I can see him not even opening the message (sent it through FB), I am just sad that we had fun time together but then he doesn't even open my message.
He wasn't just into me - that's easy to say but it's hard to understand and still hurts my feeling.
It makes me don't want to text any guy ever again.
I just wanted to share this feeling and have some comment about it.