Me and my girlfriend have almost been together for 6 months, it was love at first site and we clicked instantly, no questions asked. We have had a lot of problems before august trying to jump hurdles which had tensed the relationship as every other day something bad happened and we'd both be back to square one on feeling down...
Since our problems have gone my girlfriend still wants to cause arguments over petty things that are not necessary for example; she could turn around frequently and say i dont kiss, cuddle, give her enough sex etc when really i do give her all that regularly and if im honest im the one making the first move on everything, on rare occasions she will put herself out to kiss or cuddle me.
Anyway the main purpose of me writing this was because 4-5 days ago i came home from work, she was sleeping and i went on her phone to see if she got my message or not as she read it earlier in the night but was not online during the time she was sposed to of read it. Anyway she moved in bed and i put the phone down and she noticed i went on it after she woke up, yet i denied it for a couple of days because i was stupid and didnt want another arguement.
So eventually after constantly bringing it up i just told her the truth and the reason why but she didn't understand and called me a liar about everything when actually that was my first ever lie to her and i feel so bad about it.... last night she went to bed very early and i had a message saying she didnt want to be with me no more bla bla bla. She came downstairs and rolled a spliff which she told me she has not done for years so i question her and was told she kept the weed a month after we met and in that time we had moved to get our own house, so she brought it with us.
Now i feel like she's the big liar, im disgusted in her and dont feel the same way about her like i did before... i know were both as bad as each other with a lie but were sposed to be trying for a baby and she went and smoked it last night which i was not impressed with.
What advise can i have on this situation as i dont want her buying anymore of this weed and spiraling out of control with it like she did a couple years ago, so i was told...
Kind regards.