Back in my early twenties I developed a friendship with a women, we would literally talk every night on the phone about anything and everything and I eventually developed deep feelings for her. They weren't returned except when she was depressed or when we were alone and she would comment about the possibility.
I didn't deal with it correctly and from perspective I see that I was Whiny , naive and just plain awkward , not to mention she knew all of my deepest negative feelings.
She represents a contradiction in my mind, she is ease and truly being comfortable as well as what should be the opposite of not feeling good enough.
The problem is since then I have not been able to have a functional relationship, I come off as cold and not very emotional at all. Some can't deal with it and I have issues with dealing with other's emotions. I think I learned not to air my emotions , and while this works in the beginning , it's a horrible way to have a relationship.
I'm almost 30 and I feel my life is going by too fast to ever have a love and family. How do I fix this?