So say you have been dating someone for about 3 years and a friend of your family passes and your significant other instead of saying I'm sorry for your loss asks "why are you sad did you sleep with him?" Then not even a week later a great uncle passes and your significant other says "it's a great uncle I never met my great uncles or aunts." This situation has bothered me on top of other things but not having empathy for someone you love just seems harsh and I no longer want to be with this person.. i am being told I am wrong and need help because I want to end this relationship.