Originally Posted by
treehugger101
So I was thinking, if I don't do these things then why are you with me? Why not find another girl that will do these things for you? I don't feel I am meeting what he wants or needs in this relationship, because I don't do these things. What to do?
He's hoping that by telling you that there are problems, that you will try and fix what you're doing wrong. When he realises that you won't change, that's when he'll leave.
As for what you can do now - well you can either change, leave or stay and accept all the fighting. Choice is yours.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.