need advice please

[jojo8848]

So iv been in a 4 year relationship. It started great but the last year or so it's been really rough. It seems like all we do is fight about everything. I do everything I can when im not working cook clean help kids with homework they are not my biological kids but I accept them as my own. I work two jobs so she can stay home but everything I do isn't good enough. Heck we don't kiss nor be intimate at all. I feel so alone right now and been thinking of leaving. I know it would break the kids hearts to see me leave but I can't keep putting in 110% and not get anything back. Is my decision right?

[Wakeup]

I don't know if your decision is right with the limited amount of information you've provided. Have you spoken to her about doing more to show you that she appreciates and values you? Explained to her how down-trodden you feel as there is no show of affection or appreciation. How the lack of affection and the extent of her apathy has you contemplating leaving for good? Have you given her any chance whatsoever to remedy things?

If you have spoken to her about this and given her meaningful ideas on what it will take to make you feel happy around her and she still isn't doing anything but use you for your financial support then yes, You are definitely making the right decision to leave.