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Thread: Am I interested in her?!

  1. #1
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    Am I interested in her?!

    I'm a male, early 30's and have gf. I play in a band and we have female singer, the rest guys. She is dating another member of the band.

    My issue is that when we have rehearsals or a gig, I find I can't stop thinking about her. I got to sleep thinking about her and wake up thinking about her. It's not like this when I haven't seen her as much. It's like she gets into my head! This will sound crazy but even when I pass somebody in the store and they have the same perfume as her I kinda like it cos it reminds me of her!

    I don't think I'm interested in her romantically but I'm confused cos I think about her quite a lot.

    What's going on guys?!

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    What do you want to go on?

    She has a boyfriend so make the conscious effort to change the subject of her when she pops into your mind. You're crushing on her by the sounds of it so do what you have to do to stop crushing.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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