Cleaning is not the point, it's the matter of something that is obviously important to you that he doesn't care enough to help out. Don't look at it as a cleaning issue be the end of you.. it's his unwillingness to be a man in the relationship and do something as SIMPLE as helping you clean, shows how much he cares, or doesn't..
I'm not tryin to offend you or tell you what you don't wanna hear, but I'm just being honest with how *I* see it. I mean I've been in relationships where I've done things I really really don't like to do.. but cleaning? LoL come on now... the most important thing I always learned from those experiences too is that no matter how little or stupid or petty it seemed, if it's important to her, it's important to me.