Depressed relationship

[Jijox]

Hello girls, I really need your help!

My bf and I haven't met for more than 10 months now cuz of his passport issue.
We have been together for 3 years now, and we are really going thru bad times (arguing all the time, misunderstandings, and depressions)
I don't wanna lose him but I also don't know what to do to keep this relationship going! Btw I always try my best to make him laugh and so on... I love him endlessly

[Wakeup]

Are you saying you argue over the phone or online? You haven't seen him in 10 months because of "passport" issues... does it look like those "issues" will be resolved anytime soon? If not, and you argue all the time, why are you bothering with him? Love has nothing to do with anything when in a situation like what you're in. You can "love" him until you die but if he's not going to be able to be with you, then why are you wasting your time. Why argue and get yourself upset even more just break contact with him after you bid him adeu and get on with your life HOPEFULLY meeting someone where you actually live.

[Jijox]

Over the phone and sometimes online. He will get back his passport within 6months. I love him crazily can't just ignore him and leave him. I gotta be with him in ups and downs but the only problem is that we've been going thru this situations for about a month

[Wakeup]

^^^^ That's you wasting your life.