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    Why does she talk to me like nothing happened?

    So, it is me again. I am 40 and my ex broke up with me after telling me how she was falling in love with me, could see herself marrying me, I was perfect. She ended it out of the blue because her kid (12) did not like my kid and she said we could never have a happy family. It has been 2 weeks and she still talks to me like everything is fine and we are best of friends. She acts happy and even stops to talk to me when I see her in passing at work. She calls out to me if she sees me in the hallway and asks how I am and treats me like we were friends.

    Why would and how could in her mind think things are great and we are still friends? It makes it hard to
    Get her off my mind. Why would her motivation be?

    Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by TG87 View Post
    So, it is me again. I am 40 and my ex broke up with me after telling me how she was falling in love with me, could see herself marrying me, I was perfect. She ended it out of the blue because her kid (12) did not like my kid and she said we could never have a happy family. It has been 2 weeks and she still talks to me like everything is fine and we are best of friends. She acts happy and even stops to talk to me when I see her in passing at work. She calls out to me if she sees me in the hallway and asks how I am and treats me like we were friends.

    Why would and how could in her mind think things are great and we are still friends? It makes it hard to
    Get her off my mind. Why would her motivation be?

    Thanks
    Mostly likely because she's selfish.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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