Originally Posted by
LitesOut
Hello so i needed some help trying to figure out this girl im interested in.. We work together, but doesnt see each other often since we sometimes have different schedules.. she's abit new on d job after transferring from another state, and im more than a year on that job.. for now we are at least been working together for at least nearly 2 months..
me having a personality of a high energy guy and a goofball, from time to time crack up jokes or goof around at work( as long as my boss isnt nearby or im not being unproductive, i can get away with it lol).. and one day with me just goofing off with someone else, abit later she came up to me and said i crack her up.. it came out of nowhere to me as a surprise coz i guess she was paying attention to me( maybe getting to know d personalities of those she works with or checking me out lol)..
so while we were working that day every now and then when we run into each other, she woud say to me " your funny" or "you crack me up".. of course i would take it as a complement since those i know would sometimes tell it to me..
so whenever we get a chance to work d same day again, she would randomly comment to me "your funny" or "you crack me up" when i goof around with my coworkers even though some of my coworkers dont find it funny( sometimes they find it annoying lol).. she would say hi to me, and say my name too whenever we would run into each other..
since i noticed there might some kind of attraction between us, i started flirting with her to measure her interest if she is just messing with me or maybe there is definitely an attraction.. i used my sense of humor to get her attention, and she would keep saying to me either "your funny" or "you crack me up" with smile on her face..
whenever we get a chance to have d same break schedule, our convos has her asking me what music im into, my fave color, my fave shows, and she would tell me as well hers..
whenever we are talking to each other, i lock eyes with her and she does the same and we both never break that eye contact until our convo is over.. she is also smiling(with me smiling as well) while we are having convos..
then maybe a week later after ive started flirting with her, she stopped saying hi to me whenever we would run into each other at work.. she wouldnt even start a convo with me wheneever we are having the same break schedule.. sometimes she would ignore me as if i wasnt there whenever we are closeby working together or run into each other at work.. but whenever we arent too busy with our task, i would try to look like im ignoring her and she would initiate the convo with me and ask me wats up or any topic to talk about..
so right now we are back to wats it like when we first getting to know each other, she's smiling at me and having eye contact when we having convo and sometimes would say to me that im funny.. i told her that im checking out her fave music( the weeknd) and trying to get into it, and will finally start watching her fave tv show( she is into chick flicks, like vampire diaries) just to make her laugh or create a convo with her...
i dont know if she likes me too, but i do believe that she knows that i like her(even though i havent told anyone or her that im starting to get interested in her)
her personality is like a shy quiet introverted girl.. she doesnt seem chatty while working, unless someone chats with her.. she seems like the person who prefers get d work done and get out of here once her shift is over..
but after talking to her and getting to know her abit, she seems a fun person to hangout with and an outgoing and perky type of person..
there is at least nearly a 10year age gap between us, so idk if that age gap is likely going to be a problem when pursing a relationship with her.. she seems mature enough based from some of d convos we had.. and alot comment that i do look like in my early 20's, so someone seeing as together would like a nornal couple..
so right now im just confused as heck about her if there is a spark between us or not.. whether to pursue or not.. is she just beeing a flirt and messing with me or i may have a shot at her?!?!? im abit rusty when it comes to d dating games these days, coz i havent dated anyone in 3 years since ive been busy with life lol..