I'm a guy, and I have a female friend who is a few years younger than me. We've only known each other for a few months (we met at university) but we both feel like it's longer than that considering how much we have been hanging out etc. We also have a few mutual friends, male and female.
Recently I went over to hers to hang out, just me and her with no one else home. We normally just sit on her bed and talk or watch movies etc on her laptop. The fact that we're on her bed doesn't mean much i think - she is only in any other room when she has to be, and there's nowhere else to sit apart from her desk chair, and her bed is big and comfortable.
So one night I'm over at hers and we're watching a movie on my laptop. Sometimes she'll invite me to get in bed with her if its cold (both of us have all clothes on) and this night we were up quite late. She started to fall asleep and so did I. I didn't want invite myself to stay in case she didn't want me to, but she said it was fine for me to stay, she didnt mind. So I did. i should probably also point out that she is a virgin she told me a while ago. (I dont' see why she would lie).
Now at this point, everything is starting to add up. I've only ever been with one girl myself and even when I already knew she wanted me, I was bad at reading signs. (She did once say that laying on a bed with a guy is definitely something)
- Home alone
- Watching movies in bed under the covers
She even came over to mine at 3am once to watch my football team play on tv (she has no interest in them) and then slept in my bed with me until we had to get up for work. And guess what, I haven't made a single move.
Now at this point you're probably thinking I'm either gay or just really stupid. I would like to get with this girl, so why didn't I even try?
As weird as it seems, I just don't get that vibe that she wanted sex. I feel she is really casual and sleeping in the same bed as a guy to her is almost like nothing. But everyone I've ever spoken to says if one stays at the other's house...sex is 99% chance to happen. So she is either not sure what to do because she's inexperienced, thinks I'm really stupid and won't take a hint, or just isn't actually interested.
What do you guys think? Thanks for reading