Hello, i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. A few months ago he has moved in my town, not far from my house. In the last few weeks i couldnt see him making any effort and i told hom about it. He knows that i love him a lot, but i dont think he is any interested at me. Let me just tell you a few stories which happened this week.
I stayed at his after work on monday, i didnt see him for long as he was up early on tuesday for work. I didnt see him tuesday evening.
On Wednesday i went there before he came back from work. Once he came back i ordered a pizza and we were waiting for it to turn up. At that time he started talking about his brother. I have never met his family or friends so i asked him to show me a picture of him. Once he did, he also showed me pictures of his sisters. I then wanted to go through more of his photos on his mobile but he stopped me, told me that he doesnt go through my pictures. It felt odd so i gave him my phone and asked him what he is hiding. He then started saying he doesnt hide anything. I thought I just let it go, its not a big deal. When we woke up on Thursday morning i was in my cuddling day, it actually was a day when 10 months ago we first went out together. I kept hugging him all morning and he told me that my hugs annoy him, that he is not a huggy person. It did upset me. I asked him what we are doing on saturday as really wanted to go out. So i came up with ice skating and said that it could be a bit of fun, he then said he doesnt know. A few hours later he said that he doesnt fancy skating in a circle. So i told him that i am really trying and asked him to come up with an idea.
Then on thursday evening he told me he wants to stay alone, fine I thought he does it often anyway.
On Friday i asked him what we are doing on Saturday he told me that he doesnt know. He then told me that he is going out with his friend. I asked him to put some effort and surprise me on Saturday.
On saturday i woke up at 9 and asked him whats the plan. I got no reply, so i drove to his at 3 pm, but he didnt open the door. I called at 4 but he didn't answer the phone. So at 5 i drove there again, he opened the door, he was playing PlayStation. I asked him why he wasnt replying, but he told me that he only just woke up. I asked him whats the plan, he said that he wants to stay at home, play PlayStation and just chill out. I looked at him and said that its 10 months we are together and my birthday next week and as im working i next week i want to do something.he said he knows, but still chose PlayStation. He told me that i keep moaning and asked me to leave. When he said that something inside me broke, i looked at him and asked really? He said yes. He had my house key on the table, which i picked up and tried to give him his key back, but i couldnt take it out of the key ring. He was getting angry i could tell, i tried to give him a hug and he told me to get off him. He then stood up, opened the door and told me to leave. I left, but i just dont know what to do. All together i was there for 15 mins, i love this guy. He tells me he cares for me, but his actions speak differently. Please let me know what you think.