Ladies let me know what you would do if your boyfriend did this...

[Who123]

Hello, i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. A few months ago he has moved in my town, not far from my house. In the last few weeks i couldnt see him making any effort and i told hom about it. He knows that i love him a lot, but i dont think he is any interested at me. Let me just tell you a few stories which happened this week.
I stayed at his after work on monday, i didnt see him for long as he was up early on tuesday for work. I didnt see him tuesday evening.
On Wednesday i went there before he came back from work. Once he came back i ordered a pizza and we were waiting for it to turn up. At that time he started talking about his brother. I have never met his family or friends so i asked him to show me a picture of him. Once he did, he also showed me pictures of his sisters. I then wanted to go through more of his photos on his mobile but he stopped me, told me that he doesnt go through my pictures. It felt odd so i gave him my phone and asked him what he is hiding. He then started saying he doesnt hide anything. I thought I just let it go, its not a big deal. When we woke up on Thursday morning i was in my cuddling day, it actually was a day when 10 months ago we first went out together. I kept hugging him all morning and he told me that my hugs annoy him, that he is not a huggy person. It did upset me. I asked him what we are doing on saturday as really wanted to go out. So i came up with ice skating and said that it could be a bit of fun, he then said he doesnt know. A few hours later he said that he doesnt fancy skating in a circle. So i told him that i am really trying and asked him to come up with an idea.
Then on thursday evening he told me he wants to stay alone, fine I thought he does it often anyway.
On Friday i asked him what we are doing on Saturday he told me that he doesnt know. He then told me that he is going out with his friend. I asked him to put some effort and surprise me on Saturday.
On saturday i woke up at 9 and asked him whats the plan. I got no reply, so i drove to his at 3 pm, but he didnt open the door. I called at 4 but he didn't answer the phone. So at 5 i drove there again, he opened the door, he was playing PlayStation. I asked him why he wasnt replying, but he told me that he only just woke up. I asked him whats the plan, he said that he wants to stay at home, play PlayStation and just chill out. I looked at him and said that its 10 months we are together and my birthday next week and as im working i next week i want to do something.he said he knows, but still chose PlayStation. He told me that i keep moaning and asked me to leave. When he said that something inside me broke, i looked at him and asked really? He said yes. He had my house key on the table, which i picked up and tried to give him his key back, but i couldnt take it out of the key ring. He was getting angry i could tell, i tried to give him a hug and he told me to get off him. He then stood up, opened the door and told me to leave. I left, but i just dont know what to do. All together i was there for 15 mins, i love this guy. He tells me he cares for me, but his actions speak differently. Please let me know what you think.

[smackie9]

I had BF that only saw me when it was convenient for him. I wasn't included in anything in his life, etc....so after about a month or so I just dumped him. I got lucky and wasn't invested....I wasn't going to stick it out to see if things would eventually change.

[Who123]

Its been 10 months and i got myself involved in this relationship. It hurts, it really does

[Wakeup]

Dating is to find out if who you are with is someone that will make a good partner that will show you that you are valued.

He is not a good partner.
He is not showing you that he values you.
He is an indifferent ass that doesn't have the ballzz to break up with you so he treats you like shit so that you will break up with him. Do yourself that favor and end it. Don't call him and if he calls you, ask him to leave you alone, that you're broken up and you don't want him interfering with your healing.


I don't know you, darl'n but I know that you can do much better then the likes of him.

You will get over him quickly with zero contact and accepting that you can, indeed, do better.