I want to know if people think my husband is overreacting or if I'm in the wrong here.
So we have been married for 3 years and I don't have very many friends. So I got in contact with someone that I hadn't seen in a long time.
We have been friends for over 7 years. We started to hang out and then I made a big mistake and had an affair with him.
I have talked with my husband about this and all was well but he told me to stop seeing or talking with him.
He's a great friend so I didn't want to stop having him as a friend. And its not like anything is going to happen again because we had a talk about it and we are just friends.
so I decided to keep in touch with my friend. About 5 months after the affair I started hanging out with him again. We just talk and smoke cigs and chill.
Anyway my husband found out and is furious. He just doesn't get it that he is such a long time good friend of mine and I don't want to give him up.
He said I need to choose between my husband or my friend and I told him I'm not going to give up my friend because my husband can't trust me anymore.
If he would just trust me everything would be fine.
Do you agree he is overreacting?