Back story. Me and this guy have been in a strictly friendship/sexual on off relationship for the last 3 years. Met him when I was 19 and living in his apt building. The attraction was Instant. I later found out he had a live in gf around my age. This changed my feelings toward him because at first I really liked him but I continued to sleep w him on in off when I wasnt in a relationship over the years. I had son in that time by someone else. This past dec right before Christmas I had a fire at my home and moved back in his building. I got pregnant by him late January. Before I found out I was pregnant he was venting to me about his gf n how she had just gotten her 4th abortion at his request and this and that... I gave my input and thought nothing of it then I find out I'm pregnant and I tell him immediately! To my surprise he was excited and had names already! Im so confused as to why he wanted me pregnant. I also think he is involved with a woman he owns a salon with. I'm not looking for judgement but thoughts on whythis man who has never been in a romantic relationship w me besides casual s*x intentionally got me knocked up(he told be it was intentional ) and when he got all these women!! He only has 2 kids a daughter that's is older than me and a son that is 10 any advice or opinions are welcome