Boyfriends family dislikes me and I'm not sure how to deal with it

[TiffanyLouis]

Sorry if this isn't the right section but I just thought a mans advice would be best.
So whenever my boyfriend and I are hanging out at his house where he lives with his parents and siblings, it's so obvious they don't like me. Especailly his mom. They have never been openly rude to me but they are always asking when we're gonna leave as soon as we come over, they leave the room when I'm around sometimes, they always try to avoid me or find some way to exclude me from activities, I've been glared at. I have even overheard his mom arguing with him about me saying I do things that I don't do. No one knows I heard them. Situations like these are always really hard and uncomfortable for me. So from the very beginning I have been pretending not to notice and ignoring their little hints. I'm basically acting really oblivious and now I've started to go as far as pretending to think they actually LOVE me!! Somehow it makes me feel safer and the situation easier. And like when they're acting cold hearted towards me my reaction if to pretend not to notice and act super buddy buddy with them, which gets on their nerves lol. I don't know exactly why being like this is helping me get through it but it is. My boyfriend doesn't know it's an act. He thinks I'm really that clueless and because of that I think he is more on my side than theirs. Like maybe it's made him vlaue me even more and making him feel more inclined to defend me if anything were to escelate. But I doubt things will ever escelate beyond this. Acting clueless has been my way of getting through uncomfortable situations at his house and I don't know if I should stop or not. I mean is what I'm doing wrong? I want to talk to my boyfriend about how I feel but I think that by saying something I will become part of the problem and will no longer be the innocent one. Does that make sense? Cuz if I keep this up and his family tried to make him choose or if some crap gets started all I appear to be is sweet, clueless and innocent. I feel like this keeps the things from getting worse. Do you think I'm right? Or do you think I should talk to my boyfriend about it?

[Wakeup]

I think you should just keep ignoring their ignorance UNLESS they are openly and blatantly being rude to you. I don't think anyone should allow themselves to be treated that way. I'd not say anything to your boyfriend rather just leave their home and then tell your boyfriend that you're sorry, but you won't tolerate that kind of blatant disrespect. Then let him handle them. If they are that rude, hopefully he'll be a good partner and ask them to stop mis-treating you without you having to say a word. If he doesn't... well then you have a decision to make to decide if he's worth being with when he has them as parents.

Adding: Is he a different culture then you?

[TiffanyLouis]

I think you should just keep ignoring their ignorance UNLESS they are openly and blatantly being rude to you. I don't think anyone should allow themselves to be treated that way. I'd not say anything to your boyfriend rather just leave their home and then tell your boyfriend that you're sorry, but you won't tolerate that kind of blatant disrespect. Then let him handle them. If they are that rude, hopefully he'll be a good partner and ask them to stop mis-treating you without you having to say a word. If he doesn't... well then you have a decision to make to decide if he's worth being with when he has them as parents.

Adding: Is he a different culture then you?

No we are all white. They're not closed minded people either. Not with everything else