Originally Posted by
mikumiku
Him and I have talked about these things countless times again and again and all we do is fight. We both want to stay together and don't want to loose each other but yet all we do is fight. To me, having to ask me to verbally tell you how I feel just feels weird. I have dated a lot of guys over the years and not one has ever asked me to verbally tell them how I feel. All those others just knew how I felt. I showed them how I felt about them.
Besides that one of my friends is engaged to her man with a baby, and her man NEVER tells her, I love you. Because she knows he loves her and shows her in different ways.
If the two of you are constantly fighting, it stands to reason that he feels insecure in the relationship. Frequent fighting is a very big sign of incompatibility. Also, when the two of you fight, do you ever say hurtful things which would make him doubt that you love him?
Have you considered that if the things you fight about get solved, then he will be more secure? What kind of things are you fighting over and why have they not been solved to date?
Your relationship should not be compared to that of your friend and her partner. They are not you and him.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.