is she interested

[rey8adamjohnson]

I can't tell
Been on a date. She said yes to a second date

She texts me, will say "come cuddle" and stuff like that

I went a little clingy on her at one point but everything seemed ok still


She laughed it off and hasnt changed anything

Should I just go with the flow?

[TheEvilJester]

Just based on what you have shared so far....

Yes. Why not just go with the flow. She hasn't given you any indication to think she ISN'T interested. On the flip side of the coin, it sounds like she HAS given you some clues to think that she IS. So, yes, if you are interested in continuing to pursue her then there is currently no reason not to do just that.

Good luck to you!

[melancholia]

Based off of the original post, she sounds interested. If you feel like you are becoming too clingy, then start doing more things for just yourself. Go out with your friends and have some fun doing things you enjoy, by yourself. When we lead interesting lives, we become more attractive to other people around us. I do think you should just go with the flow and see how things go. I know it's exciting when you meet someone new and you feel a good connection that you don't want to lose. I second what theEvilJester said, that she hasn't given any signs that she is not interested, so I think you should just go for it. Realize that you have something to offer and have confidence in yourself and that you are an interesting person, worth getting to know.

[TheEvilJester]

Good advice, as well, from melancholia. (Which, I think, it the only kind she gives. ) It is definitely important to also maintain your self-worth. As she said, if you feel you could be becoming a little clingy, then taking time for yourself as well can be a big help. When you are occupied with things you enjoy outside of a relationship as well, that can help to keep the relationship from feeling like the only thing you can give your full interest and attention. That could help you not to over-focus too much on the relationship so you can hopefully just let things flow more naturally.

Of course, it is all about balance. So, certainly don't get SO wrapped up in SO MANY other things outside of the relationship that you go the complete flip side and start ignoring it completely. Life is all about balance and variety. Variety is the spice of life.

[MiReBl]

Just from what you wrote I'd say she is interested. She is showing you that she is ok with initiating physical contact with you so that's a clear sign that she wants to take things further.