Im 17, i met this girl when i was 13 and i knew from then she was the one, its been 4 years since we broke up and shes moved on but i can't, we weren't even in contact and my feelings grew stronger, we've recently started speaking again and shes in a bad place as her ex wasn't very kind, im trying to help her be happy and understand that she is beautiful, as much as i want this to progress as we've both agreed it could, it hurts so much, i love her a lot its kinda weird, but she still loves her ex and even though she don't say it i know shes struggling to get over him, I've been told i should leave it and stop talking to her but its easier said than done, im only 17 and this is killing me, what should i do 😢