Guys & Fantasies - Why Look Up Other Women if you Have One?

[mermador]

If a guy has chosen to be with a girl and says he's happy, why does he need to insistently look up other women on bondage sites? Even if he never meets with them, why participate in a fantasy to never have? I understand needing an emotional connection, but it makes his girl think she's not enough for him and that he's not devoted to just her, and where SHE is his every fantasy and desire.

My guy was faithful to his cheating spouse before me for 20 years, then I come along and open up his fantasies, and now he is looking at other women with ropes and stuff and never had that desire before me, nor did he have that with his ex, and it's getting worse. He can't explain why he does this. I understand the girlie magazines too, and would consider myself as attractive as one of those. There is usually the "wife" and the "fantasy girl." I have always been the fantasy girl up 'till now, 8 years with this guy not married. Can't tell but seems like I am both categories now? I have always gotten married men attracted to me, then leave and break my heart after searching out their fantasy. Even religious men wonder what sex is really like.

Must you look up visuals?
Are you really with her when emotionally with another?
Some guys really are obsessed with their girl, yet do you still need to look up other women if you feel fulfilled?
Do all men need to do this?
Do you finally have the girl you love yet still need this from others?
Are you finally fulfilled with a girl, yet she is also looking at other men?
Is it ever possible where 2 can be fulfilled with just each other?

[Ianidus]

He just fancies some special time alone and wants something to help. Its not you I'm sure he loves dearly. don't take it personally its a male tendency.

[chickmagnet7]

A guy whose got a partner may be loyal but may be not loyal.

In character psychology, the types that fall into the most loyal guy/lady are

ENTJ (Pure Choleric)
ENFJ (Choleric Phlegmatic)
ESTJ (Choleric Melancholy)

Other types are not loyal, hence will be easily disturbed by other men, women.