Hello,
My name is Kelsey and I have a bit of a problem. I am not allowed to date before I am 21 and I don't even know if i want to. But the thing is, the previous year my former classmate - Bob (from primary school) asked me out. I was petrified and didn't know what to do, i mean i don't know what love feels like or anything so i said ok, but then when i told my parents they advised me to reject him, but explain that i still want to be friends with him. I did that and he ignored me for a good week and then we slowly went back to being friends (at this point i should mention that we both play guitar and are interested in it, so we have that in common). But then, a month ago i went on a trip (with a tourist agency) and found out, that both he and my current classmate – Joey - also signed up. We went along very good, until the night when we had free, so we all got drunk a bit. That's when Joey told me that how he felt about me for some years and i was shocked because i had not seen that coming. The next day both Joey and Bob apologized to me because it turned out they were both competing for me during the trip. That's when Bob just went out with another girl, started to ignore me again. Now i have a problem, because i think that i like Bob (i have liked him for some time, even when he invited me out, but never had the guts to tell him) but i don't really want to ruin his relationship with another girl or hurt Joey's feelings (i don't feel anything towards him). Soo i don't know what to do, please help me? :/