Hi guys, I need some advice. I will try to make it brief.
I have been dating my BF for 8 years, We are both 27. He has a sock fetish. He has never cheated and is usually quite sweet but he is addicted to porn. I have caught him talking to girls about their socks on tumblr and taking sneaky pictures of girls feet in rl. I talked to him about this being perverted and making me feel a bit betrayed and he felt bad and stopped (except for the porn of course). I do put out and defiantly play to his fetish on a daily basis. Here's where the issue comes up, my friend is the same age as me and is going through a really bad divorce. She has a small kid and is moving in with my boyfriend and I for a few months to get back on her feet. She is a nice person with good work ethic and will not take advantage of our kindness, but of all ****ing things she is a runner. Her prancing around in sweaty runner socks might as well be prancing around in a string bikini.
I know I have self-esteem issues. I have talked to my bf about my paranoid jealousy over this and he says he will not stare at her feet or touch/smell her socks when they are laying about the house. (He has stolen socks and masturbated to them before we dated). I have considered telling my friend prior to her stay with us so she is aware, which my bf is embarrassed about but did not disagree. He also HATES black socks so I have considered that as some kind of solution... but then again I think I may just be overreacting from my PTSD of being cheated on in the past.
Should I tell my friend to please be aware of her feet or ask her to wear black socks? Or should I keep my bf's secret and just grin and bear it when shes innocently walking about the house? If you were going to stay with your friend would you want to be aware? Advice would be appreciated as it seriously feels like I am about to star in a Jerry Springer episode or a bad sock fetish fan fiction.