Is my boyfriend losing interest in me ?

[nargis]

.I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through facebook in the initial stage of our relationship we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. i know the problem is little weird but please bear with me.

Whenever we used to talk on phone we used to do sex chat. It lasted for 4 months. After 4 months we met for the first time..we started meeting in person. On every weekend we used to sleep with each other.. this thing lasted for 8-9 months. after that we again got into the long distance. Now the problem is .. he is not interested in virtual sex. He says.. we had already done everything in person.. now it feels weird talking about these stuff on phone or video. these things doesn't turn me on. But whenever we meet.. we do all these stuff.. do you think its normal... or Is my boyfriend is losing interest in me ? He calls me every day.. he talks about future but i think he is not physically attracted towards me any more. I lost lots of weight in last one year. My height is 5'3 but weight is only 40 kg.. so basically i am underweight .when we were friends once he told me that he has a thing for curvy women basically chubby girls. He never ask me for my pictures. Day by day i am getting insecure about myself.. i am losing confidence in my self please help me out.

[Jlovebird]

This problem is very interesting. It sounds as if he is very interested in you if he calls you everyday and talks about a future with you. Men only do these emotional ties if they really care about you, and it is flattering that he prefers you in person. I would love if that's how a guy felt. My ex and I used to do things over Skype and we did slowly stop after we started doing things in person. Maybe this means he isn't a porn watcher or a very dirty man, which are both great qualities. I think you shouldn't ever be insecure about your weight unless you are unhealthy. If you are healthy and you feel good there is absolutely no reason you should ever feel down about how you look. It's quite sweet you want to be everything he wants or needs, but you already are if you two are meant to be. Don't ever think you need to change yourself, but there is nothing wrong with bettering yourself. I was quite underweight in highschool and my current boyfriend has really encouraged me to workout with weights, and I have happily put on weight and I feel more energetic and strong. Love yourself, and if he chooses to love you too then accept it whole heartedly. If not, love the only life you get and move on. Time heals all wounds. There are amazing people out there for you to meet, I promise you that. If anything, give him all of your love and anything in bed with follow if it's right.