Is it no respect he shows or I'm just crazy

[Chezamg]

Hi... Looking for male response please..... I've very recently broke up with a man whom I was in a relationship with if you can call it that or apparently I'm wanting too much....... We have been sleeping together for 10 years,, not long ago he said he wanted a relationship with me but first told me these 3 things,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,(1..I'm not the one, Im not in love with you..2.if the one with money comes along I'm gone..3..he will sleep his way to the top.)..........it's only inside his house or inside mine..... So we had been catching up regularly for a night of drinking and sex,,.. We never do anything out side his or my house, we would catch up 2 times a week, but then it dropped off to once a month,,, or so there was a time when I didn't see or hear from him at all and that was when my dad passed suddenly. I texted him as he was on holiday,,, his response was 'chin up' and he never made contact with me when he got home which was like 3 days after... I decided to move back to my home town for support and that was 6 months after my dad died so I contacted him and we sleep together the night before I moved out of town....very disappointed is all I can say . He has never taken me out nor spent a cent on me and I've never met anyone to do with him,,,,, I broke it off but he says I'm selfish.... Ive never needed a guy so I'm not clingy ..... I'm happy with or with out him just I was the one in love with him...he has no respect right??...

[dollhouse]

He sounds like a complete asshole and narcissist and that .."chin up "... comment after your dad died and didn't offer any moral support that would have been the straw that broke the camels back with me and it would have been a quick and abrupt Goodbye from me forever to him....you need to stop all with him, no sex, no contact ... he basically told you he doesn't love you and you are not the one he wants for his life partner....you can definitely do better than this guy who has basically hid you for ten years. Tell yourself you deserve much more and then believe yourself when you say it and don't contact him again. Only more pain will come from contacting him. Love yourself and if you need to see a therapist to help you, then do so, but no longer see this man. He's toxic. All the best.

[Jffs24]

^ Exactly what she said.

If someone tells you that aren't that into then don't continue wasting your life on them and don't give them sex as some bonus gift for basically telling you you aren't their ideal. Time to get give this dud a kick away.